Leaders must have a belief that they have everything that they need. Need is a quality that competes with leadership. A person who feels like they lack in some departments in life; start to focus inwardly. They start trying to get what they need at the expense of everyone else. Who can blame them? There is a huge hole in their spirit in which they are trying to fill with everything that they can, the value and time of others, money, sex, food, and anything else. Desperately, they try to bring value to themselves because to them, they need it more than anyone. The only time someone who “needs” is happy is when someone more dominant allows the “needer” temporarily into their reality. This is dangerous for someone who thinks they lack, because this allows for manipulation and ridicule. It isn’t common for this to happen, because anyone’s reality will out match someone who thinks their own reality is lacking something. But all to often real needers are rejected beforehand, because leaders like to remain unaffected so they cast out the needer and the needy in order to preserve their own value and emotions.
Quick Fix: Believe that you have everything that you need! Why? Because you do, you have every single that you will ever need for success. Quit looking for things to fill the imaginary hole in your spirit, you have everything. Your slate is wiped clean, everything in the past doesn’t matter. You have just as much as everything that everyone else has.
